OFFENDING PARENT.
THOSE ARE TWO OF THE DUMBEST WORDS I HAVE EVER HEARD.
SERIOUSLY.
TAKE A LOOK AROUND, IN AN INSTANT ANY PARENT, CARETAKER, RELATIVE CARETAKER, FOSTER PARENT OR CPI WORKER CAN BECOME AN "OFFENDING PARENT" KNOW WHAT IT TAKES TO BECOME AN OFFENDING PARENT?
ONE ARGUMENT WITH YOUR SPOUSE.
ONE LOUSY DAY AT WORK AND BY THE TIME YOU GET HOME YOUR PATIENCE ARE ALREADY GONE WELL BEFORE YOU'VE HEARD "HONEY CAN YOU" AND "MOM!" AND "NO!!!!" A THOUSAND TIMES AND YOU YELL.
ONE NOSEY NEIGHBOR WHO PUTS THEIR INTEREST IN YOU A BIT TOO MUCH AND ALSO HAPPENS TO BE THE NEIGHBORHOOD COP CALLER.
THAT IS ALL IT TAKES TO BECOME AN OFFENDING PARENT AMD HAVE YOUR CHILDREN RIPPED AWAY FROM YOU, YOUR FAMILY DESYROYED, YOUR CHILDREN'S HEARTS BROKEN AND CONFUSED, YOUR OWN LIFE MEANINGLESS AND THE FINGERS TO BE POINTED AT YOU. EVERYONE ASSUMES THERE HAS GOT TO BE MORE TO THE STORY. THE STATE CAN'T TAKE YOUR KIDS AWAY FOR NOTHING.
TO HELL AND BACK THAT THEY CAN'T.
THEY DID. THEY HAVE. THEY WILL AGAIN.
IT IS THE ONLY WAY THE SY.CONTINUES TO RUN.
HOW ELSE ARE ASSISTANT STATE ATTORNEYS GOING TO CONTINUE TO CHERRY PICK KIDS TO ADOPT?
I HAVE A REAL PROBLEM WITH THAT, ALTHOUGH THIS WASN'T WHAT I PLANNED TO POST ABOUT. WHY THE HELL IS THE ASSISTANT STATE ATTORNEY, MORE IMPORTANTLY THE ASSISTANT STATE ATTORNEY ASSIGNED TO MY CASE WHO HAS HAD HER FANGS OUT FOR ME FROM THE BEGINNING I SWEAR, ADOPTING KIDS.FROM THE SAME COURTROM THAT SHE IS ARGUING IN EVERYDAY?
Monday, December 12, 2011
Saturday, August 13, 2011
Our Lil Loves, Stolen from Mommy & Daddy on FALSE, UNPROVEN, ALLEGATIONS BY CPI FLORIDA
OUR LIL LOVES, 4 YEARS AND 2 YEARS OLD ---- DO THEY LOOK ABUSED OR NEGLECTED TO YOU?
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!
STOLEN FROM DAYCARE ON 7/26/2011 AND IMMEDIATELY RETURNED ON 7/27/2011 VIA COURT ORDER
STOLEN AGAIN ON 8/4/2011 IN FRONT OF A DIFFERENT JUDGE, WITH THE SAME ALLEGATIONS FROM 7/26/2011 THAT WERE DISMISSED AND DISPROVEN!!! CPI TRICKERY AND THIEVERY OF OUR CHILDREN!!
Sunday, April 24, 2011
Trying to stay connected and present when your seperated from your children
The most difficult, heart wrenching part of the past 5 Months for me has been not being with my children everyday, not knowing if they brushed their teeth, practiced their letters, how school was, the current days rambling about preschool love lives but I always worried endlessly that they would forget that Mommy exists, or the sound of my voice,or how much I love them. While I continue to be met with resistance from my soon to be ex husband, I mail my kids pages I've colored for them almost daily or stickers ect, on Valentine's I bought a recordable card and wished the kids a happy Valentine's and thankfully he sms give them that. One of the best things I've been able to do to keep my voice present and accessible anytime my daughter needs it is I purchased one of hallmarks recordable books, all the ways I love you, read and recorded it, added a few personal lines and gave it to my daughter during a supervised visit. That way I knew she got it since I handed it to her and the family specialist was also aware of it which ceased any petty disputes my ex could raise about it. My kids however LOVE that book and still listen to it several times a week, my 4 year old likes the last page where I wish her good night, tell her to wish on our star and that I love her so much.
It's a pale comparison to the relationship and interaction we are used to and should have but sometimes a little bit of something ls better than nothing! Check out a couple of the links below for recordable books.
Search Amazon.com for hallmark my little princess recordable book
It's a pale comparison to the relationship and interaction we are used to and should have but sometimes a little bit of something ls better than nothing! Check out a couple of the links below for recordable books.
Search Amazon.com for hallmark my little princess recordable book
Saturday, April 23, 2011
The Shelter Hearing ... September 9, 2010
The emergency shelter hearing was held on September 9, the kids had not been removed from our care at that time , but Child Protective Services was seeking their removal on that morning based on allegations of neglect via failure to protect, allegations of substance abuse and allegations of domestic violence. I was a wreck. When I took the kids to school that morning I threw up in the parking lot terrified I wouldn't be picking them up that afternoon.
The hearing was held in front of the honorable Judge Day in Pinellas County, Unified Family Court, ie, juvenile dependency court. The CPI worker was present presenting her allegations and reasons she wanted to remove my 3
and 1 year old from my care, her shelter petition was denied, thank god
Judge Day stated he saw a lot of smoke but no fire, dismissed and denied the states motion but allowed the department to do a direct file if they desired and ordered mg husband and I to cooperate with the community provider, Eckerd / Directions / ECA. All said we left that day ecstatic that our children were not in jeopardy and believing the worst was behind us, wrong again.
But for that day, life was good, I picked my kids up, had a normal few weeks and prepared for our trip to my hometown in Indiana for my 10 year high school reunion that was approaching the 25th of that month. Days before we left we received a call from the appointed case manager from Eckerd , C. Manning , setting an appointment for September 29, 2010. Our trip to Indy wad amazing yet again I was fooled by my hopes and eternal faith in being a blissful family, ignoring all signs that should of prompted me to recognize and address my husbands deciet. The meeting on the 29th with CManning would turn out to be another foreshadowing of what the future held for my family and I.
The kids and I in Indy, September 2010, after the denied shelter hearing and before the initial appointment with the case manager assigned to our family thru Eckerd /Directions , the CBC for Pinellas County. the kids and I were happy, bonded, well adjusted Mommy and kids still at this time. Little did I know that my husband, Eckerd and the GAL were going to be railroading me soon and destroying the life my children were meant to have.
The hearing was held in front of the honorable Judge Day in Pinellas County, Unified Family Court, ie, juvenile dependency court. The CPI worker was present presenting her allegations and reasons she wanted to remove my 3
and 1 year old from my care, her shelter petition was denied, thank god
Judge Day stated he saw a lot of smoke but no fire, dismissed and denied the states motion but allowed the department to do a direct file if they desired and ordered mg husband and I to cooperate with the community provider, Eckerd / Directions / ECA. All said we left that day ecstatic that our children were not in jeopardy and believing the worst was behind us, wrong again.
But for that day, life was good, I picked my kids up, had a normal few weeks and prepared for our trip to my hometown in Indiana for my 10 year high school reunion that was approaching the 25th of that month. Days before we left we received a call from the appointed case manager from Eckerd , C. Manning , setting an appointment for September 29, 2010. Our trip to Indy wad amazing yet again I was fooled by my hopes and eternal faith in being a blissful family, ignoring all signs that should of prompted me to recognize and address my husbands deciet. The meeting on the 29th with CManning would turn out to be another foreshadowing of what the future held for my family and I.
The kids and I in Indy, September 2010, after the denied shelter hearing and before the initial appointment with the case manager assigned to our family thru Eckerd /Directions , the CBC for Pinellas County. the kids and I were happy, bonded, well adjusted Mommy and kids still at this time. Little did I know that my husband, Eckerd and the GAL were going to be railroading me soon and destroying the life my children were meant to have.
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